5 Common Proposal Styles

Over the years after working with thousands of customers, It seems that there are a few common ways that the proposal takes place. Keep in-mind that each situation is unique and depends on the couple, so have an open mind and see which proposal situation you might fall into.

1. The Total Surprise

This is definitely a gutsy move. She doesn't know it's coming and it's a total surprise to her. I would say that less than 15% of proposals happen this way. Although there are some gentlemen that do go out and purchase the ring, go to dinner and propose. However, I personally do not recommend this. Normally one person or another would drop hints to get a better understanding of how you feel about the situation. Doing a proposal cold is like those old school dances where the girls stand on one side and the boys stand on the other. If you ask a girl to dance, and she says no, the walk back is pretty long. When it comes to a proposal it is similar. Once it's done, it's done - so gentlemen - be careful.

2. She Knows you Know

This one is a bit easier. She knows and you know you both want to get married. You discussed the situation, pledged your love, talked about the future, kids, and everything else. So she knows that a proposal is coming eventually, she just doesn't know WHEN.

For the men - between the time she knows and the time you actually propose can be a truly a romantic experience for both you. Keep her guessing and have some fun with. Although, don't take advantage of the situation or wait too long which could stir up some fire.

3. Passionate, but Ringless

Sometimes people only need a few moments together to really know the other person is "the one." You may be a few dates into it, or a a year into it. Had the most romantic evening and the feelings just hit you. You mention a few romantic words to her and ask her to marry you. She accepts, but you don't have a ring in your pocket. Many ringless proposals lead to shopping for rings together. This is similar to the She Knows, You Know proposal just another approach.

4. Now or Never!

If this proposal method comes into play, this is pretty much when she gives you an ultimatum. You waited so long that she tells you "We are getting married or I'm leaving you." If you truly do love her get off the pot and propose to her. If it does come to this stage (for the guys) make sure you are extra careful and extra romantic!

5. Elope or the Runaway

To elope basically means to run away secretly or slip away. This happens probably more so when you think of those Las Vegas movies where its a spur of the moment marriage tonight and right now. Sometimes this happens during an accidental pregnancy, but more or less its usually not a clear cut thought out marriage or proposal for that matter. From my experience these tend to end in divorce more often than not.

No matter what proposal method you choose be make sure you choose the correct one for your situation. If you are the one being proposed to, keep in mind these methods and take action if needed (such as drop hits).